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Introvert? Overthinker? Just Make a Fucking Decision.

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I'm an introvert. I have a tendency to overthink.

It becomes an issue when u miss deadlines and keep changing your mind. I think it comes from an insecurity that’s underneath. That maybe I’m crazy as hell and a little unrealistic.


But the alternative is to be normal and why the hell would I do that?


Here’s what I noticed. When it comes to certain things I don’t have to think about it. I just do it. Things that I’m familiar with, or have done before. I decided that I don’t eat pork or red meat. I’m not in any indecision when I go to the grocery store. I decided that I was healthy. I don’t have to wait for muthafucking New Year’s Day! I drink my detox tea and have my apple cider vinegar in the morning. I’m eating clean. I don’t have to think about it. It just is. Okay. Obviously, I'm capable of doing this.


So I said to myself, what if I approached more things in my life like this? Like my work and writing habits. What if I planned something with minimal steps and incredible execution?

What if shit could be simple and I’m the one making things complex?


We often make our lives more complicated than they need to be.

You can plan and fuss until you’re blue in the face but you can’t control everything. So what if you just decide, stop thinking and do that shit? What if you didn’t wait? What if u start today? What’s a goal that you’ve been pushing off, and it’s really not that damn deep? I’m challenging you to decide, create a basic plan, then shut down all thinking, doubts, second-guessing and go for that shit.


What would be your goal and what's the first step you can take to make it a reality?